Self Judgement

Self Judgement is not a self development strategy.

For every 'mistake' you made, there was an underlying issue beyond your understanding.

When you know better, it is time to embrace yourself in a mighty hug and loving presence.

It is not the time to judge yourself for not knowing earlier.

The people around you may not be forgiving,

But refuse to let them hold you in a perpetual cycle of self judgment:

Always bringing it up to make you feel:

Less confident,

Less happy,

Less assured.

Release yourself. Tell them you have DECIDED, it will never be the definition of who you are.

It has to be a decision from your heart.

You are creating NEW experiences and memories now.

Allow yourself be new with them.

Always beating yourself up for something which happened a while ago or even a few minutes ago will not make you a BETTER person.

Feeling bad is not a sign you are now a 'good' person, nor does it indicate progress.

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